I feel like a beached whale. I’m tired, I’m fat and I can’t be bothered doing anything remotely close to exercise. No walks and no swims. The bloating and nausea is worse this time. The fatigue unrelenting.
Today I managed to drag myself out of the house for the first time in 3 days. The foreshore was a buzz with ANZAC activity. Although I felt too exhausted to do much but sit on a bench with a cup of tea, it was nice just to be there amongst families enjoying a day off and remembering our soldiers.
Each cycle is getting harder. The toy soldiers inside me wreak their havoc on a body already feeling depleted. It’s hard not to feel down about it. As a busy, active person it feels so wrong to just roll with the punches. I want to fight and punch back!
I’m so glad I’ve had a bit of work to be getting on with over the last couple of days. It would be too easy to wallow without it. Having a reason to get out of bed makes the day so much easier.
Tomorrow I have a special reason to get up and get going, it is a big day in our family. Our beautiful boy is turning 18! An adult! This afternoon I am conserving my energy for tomorrow’s celebration lunch. He has challenged us over the years, but I am so proud of the man he is growing into. He has shown resilience and confidence in a difficult year at home and maintained his caring and empathetic nature throughout. I look forward to seeing where life takes him. We love you 80 Buzz.
I also look forward to seeing where life takes me after this hiccup in the road! It has to change a person in so many ways. You can no longer take your health for granted. You should no longer push yourself to the limit.
It’s time for me to learn some self compassion!
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The BooBee Journey 